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From: edbook |
Date: April 26th, 2009 02:16 pm (UTC) |
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the fact that I made my comment was in jest. It's the tipping of my hand sort of humor... perhaps dry or slightly sarcastic or subtle as in this case... I did post it for others reading... as I do a lot of my comments to try to shorten a long story, Ever notice how when listening to folks greeting each other, few say "Hello" or "Greetings" or such but instead say "How Ya Doin'?" and the answer always seems to be "How Ya Doin'?", neither participant in the meeting answering the other's question and if one would actually tell how he was doin', it would be "pretty good" or such but not thinking about how he really was doing... that is unless he was doin' really poorly, then, he might say "not so well" which might solicit a response from the other... Well, I got tired of that and tried to infuse a little humor so would say "fair to midlin" and not getting a rise from that started saying things like "poor to very poor" or "lousy to stinkin'" but always something different... it would be whimsical and no one really believed it because no one really takes a greeting as truth. But after a while I noticed that what I was saying became me... saying these things became imputing them... making it happen... so I read about it. I remember one book titled "Hung by the Tongue" meaning what you say is what you get. Another was titled "Terrific" They explained that what you think about and what comes out of your mouth become affirmations. It makes sense and from then on, would always answer when asked "How you doin'" would answer "I'm working on Excellent" it always gets notice and solicits a smile from the receiver and it does make me feel better. I don't lie saying I'm Excellent but I am always working on it. I sometimes will add "I'm not saying how far I have to go to get there but, I'm working on it." and sometimes add that I might have to change directions but I am working on it. This caused me to think of other affirmations I make in my life and one was confirmed by my friend Pat Ohara http://patohara.com who said that we influence our art by how we talk about it. It's one thing I always teach first in my workshops and to my personal students. There are many uplifting descriptive words for the processes we use and we should use them instead of commercialized words thought up by some ad writer... just thinking about the words we can use or borrow from other arts to use with ours. I amuse myself sometimes and others with an exercise in finding more descriptive words to use... do we "snap" a picture? I sometimes do... but only when I don't care what it will look like, see what I mean? Does someone who writes music snap a ditty? no, he composes... see? so I need to get off here for a while and go push the doohickey ;) Peace I write the word Peace every time I sign off or sign my name or say goodby for a reason... it brings Peace to my heart and hopefully to the reader/hearer Hugs work too but doesn't always go over well with a clerk in a store.
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